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7 Surefire Ways to Know If Your Girlfriend Feels the Same Way About You!

June 22nd, 2010 by | Comments Off | Filed in Prevent Break Up

by Cucan Pemo

You’re crazy about your girlfriend and you just want to scream from the rooftops how much you adore this woman in your life.  But you’re scared – and I completely understand.

After being burned too many times by women who I thought felt the same way that I did, I finally learned that there are seven ways to tell if your girlfriend is crazy about you too. It makes professing your love for her a lot less nerve wracking – because you know what she’s going to say in return.

#1 – She Always Wants to Be With You

A woman who wants to make plans with you is a woman who cares about you.  The fact of the matter is that you want to be with her, so if she feels the same, she’s going to want to be with you more often too.  She might call you up to see if you want to do things on the weekend or she might plan out dates for weeks in advance – all because she wants to make sure that you are going to make the time for her too.

#2 – She Wants to Introduce You to Others

When a woman wants you to meet her parents or her friends, you know she’s into you.   She’s proud of you and she wants everyone to know it.  While you might be nervous to meet these special people in her life, chances are good that she’s already praised you in front of them, so you have nothing to worry about.

If she wants to introduce you to her friends, you’re someone especially important in her life – her friends are her final judges in the competition for her heart.

#3 – She Always Looks Nice

A woman who takes the time to always look nice around you is a woman who cares about you.  While it’s true that as a relationship progresses, the woman might spend less time on her appearance, little things that show she still cares what you think will remain.

For example, she might always wearing earrings around you or a perfume that you said you liked.  All of these little touches add up to a woman who cares.

#4 – She Remembers Your Birthday and Other Special Days

If she remembers your birthday and other special days, she cares about you and wants you to see that.  Even if she doesn’t get you a gift or she doesn’t actually do something big, the fact that she remembers to tell you “Happy Birthday” or something similar means that she needed to remember this the whole day and she planned on telling you for the past few days before.

#5 – She Smiles When You Walk into the Room

Her smile can be all the answer that you need to any questions of how she might feel about you.  If she instantly smiles when she sees you, it’s because she’s already been thinking about you and to see you, that’s only made her day better.

#6 – She Laughs at Your Jokes, Even the Bad Ones

While you don’t necessarily want to be with a woman who mocks you, a woman who is willing to let your dumb jokes slide is a keeper.  If she’s trying to make an effort to laugh at you and to be interested in what you have to say, she’s something that you want to be with – and she really wants to be with you.

However, you don’t necessarily want to be with someone who things EVERYTHING you say is funny because then she might just be mocking you.  You can tell if she’s really happy to be around you by the skin around her eyes – if it crinkles when she smiles or laughs, she’s genuinely happy.  And if not, she’s either had a lot of Botox or she’s faking it.

#7 – She Tells You

Women who tell you that they like you are the ones that are the easiest to read.  You might want to simply ask straight up whether she likes you or not.  And she’s more than likely going to answer you.  Or a woman who begins to compliment you all the time or begins to say that she likes, and then she says something else besides ‘you,’ is trying to say that she likes you, but she’s uncomfortable or nervous. Simply press her to finish her sentence and you’ll be happy with what you hear.

Most women are pretty clear when they like you, but just in case they’re not, watch out for these signs and you can be sure that she feels the same way you do.  And if you’re not seeing these signs, that’s not necessary a reason to dump her, but you might want to start asking if she’ll ever be happy with you – for both of your sakes.

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Keeping a Marriage Strong and Healthy- Communication Breakdown

June 9th, 2010 by | Comments Off | Filed in Save Your Marriage

It happens to the best of us. Communication is such a fickle thing, and the lines of communication can become blurred every so often, especially when feelings are involved. Even those who think that they are immune to the confusion of conflict can find themselves drawn into a communication breakdown when they least expect it, and chaos ensues.

This happened to me on the weekend, and until to be quite honest, it took me by surprise. Even those of us who are better equipped than many others are not immune and keeping a marriage strong and healthy can be very difficult. My partner told me something that really hurt my feelings, and I lashed back in defense. It was a silly argument, over something as simple as a misplaced bottle of aftershave. But to me, it represented something much deeper, that had been simmering away for a couple of weeks. I get frustrated at having to search for something when it is not where I expect it to be. Worse still when my partner has shifted it and I don’t know the first place to begin searching.

Aftershave, needles and thread, car keys, a Tupperware container to store my baking soda in, covers for our outdoor chairs, all were examples of instances where I had to turn the house upside-down. A simple answer from my partner when these things were shifted would have saved me a lot of time and frustration. And the answer I got? “You need to open your eyes and organize yourself better”

I was gutted. When I come home from work I exercise the dog and cook dinner so that it is on the table by the time my partner gets home. The house is always spotless and warm, as I’m very conscious of coming home to a tidy environment. I see this as a fundamental part of my role in coming home first, and it takes a lot of my time. To imply that I have the time to “organize yourself better” really hurt.

I don’t expect praise, but I did hope that my efforts were recognized. I got told that “I don’t expect you to cook my dinner every night” was interpreted by me as ingratitude, and hurt me even more.

So where to from here? My partner felt guilty at coming home every night to the perfect household, whereas I felt guilty if it wasn’t perfect. It was never about me trying to make him feel guilty, but it seems it did. And this is where the communication fell down. He misinterpreted my efforts, and I misinterpreted his response.

Communication, communication, communication. I need for my partner to keep me informed of where things move to. I need to be informed. I need to voice my frustration before it gets to boiling point. We both need to talk about our feelings more, and how each of our contributions to our home and our relationship make us feel, and how we interpret each others contributions. It is not a competition, but for many couples it feels like it.

When people feel guilt or stress, it leads them to act funny ways. Often stress and guilt are barriers to communication. The key to overcoming them is to recognize what it is, and have the courage to talk about it. You might be able to do it as a couple, or you might want the help of a friend who can listen to the way you are communicating with each other and offer insights and advice.

We got it sorted out, and kissed and hugged. It wouldn’t hurt so much if I didn’t feel such love at the same time. But it served as a good reminder to me. Sometimes you get so wrapped up in your own emotions that you forget to think of the other person. You also need to entertain the possibility that you are misinterpreting each other. Talking about it is the way to expose the miscommunication and let the healing begin.

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Get the Relationship of Your Dreams with Amy Waterman

June 8th, 2010 by | Comments Off | Filed in Dating Guides

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Finding Who is Right For You- When Do You Know If He’s Right?

June 7th, 2010 by | Comments Off | Filed in Dating Guides

by Amy Waterman, Relationship Expert

In the dating arena, finding who is right for you can be a real challenge. It can be really difficult sometimes to know if he is the right person for you.

How many dates does it take to make a decision about whether or not you want to pursue a relationship?

I’ve always been curious about this aspect of dating, because very few women have comparable experiences. With some dates, the knowledge is immediate and instinctual. With other dates, months may pass before the endearing nature of his laugh, his smile, his character becomes apparent.

I know that I am a slow warmer. I am wary when I meet a man for the first time. I am dubious of his intentions. I read innuendo where none was intended. It takes me time to let down my guard.

It’s not because I’m naturally a suspicious person. It’s because, in the realm of relationships, I’ve been burned enough by bad apples.

I’m representative of most women my age. By one’s thirties, one has experienced enough bad relationships to associate the dualities of pain and pleasure with a man. One is never sure how much to trust thus making it difficult in finding who is right for you.

But this isn’t natural.

Twenty years ago, I loved all boys. I played with them innocently and full-heartedly. Boys were my playmates, my cohorts in crime, and my teammates for games. I could think no evil of boys. Their strange preferences for dirt, body odor, cars, and constrictive underpants were simply idiosyncrasies of fascinating playmates.

As I grew older, I realized that boys could no longer be trusted to play innocently with me. My first two male friends in college were cool–a jazz musician and an Apple Mac gamer–until I realized they “liked” me. I quickly dissolved the friendships. I wanted the innocent companionship and friendship of my childhood male schoolmates. I didn’t realize that maturing would erase that possibility completely.

When do we women lose our innocence with men? And can we ever regain it?

In my line of work, one great danger is to take relationships and attraction too seriously. Many women feel that the potential of the man they are seeing is a matter of life or death. Instead of having fun playing with him (like a child with a favorite playmate), they evaluate his potential as a father. They situate any future relationship squarely in the realm of adulthood. The rest of their lives is at stake.

My flatmate tells me that the definition of compatibility as a couple is when his or her issues are compatible with your issues.

That’s a pretty adult view of the situation.

I have a different view. I believe that you know a man is compatible with you if he likes to play the same “games” you like to play. Maybe you like to tease in a certain way; maybe there’s a certain game in bed that you like to play. Maybe you like to go out; maybe you like to mountain bike. If he likes to enjoy himself and have fun and laugh in the same ways as you, you’ve found a potential soulmate.

We all knew back in childhood that there were some children that we could play with for ages, and there were others who liked games that didn’t interest us. It’s the same with men and women.

Yet in our attempt to find a suitable man, we often forget to look for one that we have fun with. One that makes the kinds of jokes we find funny (and laughs at our jokes). One that is up for any crazy scheme we propose. One that will make our life happy and light-hearted, not just important and successful.

Life is serious and dry enough. We don’t need relationships to replicate those patterns.

Relationships should be a haven from life’s dry seriousness. You should be able to feel like a child with your partner, unembarrassed at the silliest of games. Together, you will be responsible for forming a life, raising children, making a home … but all this will only be enjoyable if you can laugh together.

I have been out on dates with many successful, intense, highly attractive men. I admire them, appreciate them, and learn much from conversations with them. These are the men who will shape the world. No woman can fail to respond to their power.

But as for myself … in my little, humble world … I envision my ideal future as one in which there is always laughter, in which I can return to childhood with my spouse and play those games that I didn’t get to play enough before I grew “old.” I want us to be able to chase one another around the room, have pillow fights, and wrestle. I want us to tease one another, share silly jokes, and dissolve the seriousness of a working day with the magical spell of humor.

So, I suppose, the answer to my question is that it takes exactly the number of dates you need to decide whether you’ve found a companion you can play with. Some kids find a game they can play with each other right off the bat. Other kids end up trying lopsided games that one but not the other likes until they either find a game they like in common or give up.

Trust your child-heart’s instinct. Ask yourself … if you were a kid, would you play with this guy? Or would he be one of those kids who tries to control the game, or change the rules, or cheat?

A partner who makes life more fun is a treasure indeed,

All the best in life and love,

Amy Waterman
Host of “How to Be Irresistible to Men”
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