5 Steps to Flirting With Women

If you want to meet, attract, and date more women then you need to learn how to flirt with women.  The best way to do this is learn a few good flirting techniques and then to go out and practice them.  In this article I will give you a five step process for creating that fun, flirtatious vibe that women are most attracted to.

1.  Get playful

The first characteristic that you want to display to a woman is that you’re playful.  This is because women hate getting stuck talking to nervous, cautious, and boring guys.    As soon as you demonstrate to a woman that you are fun guy… she will put her guard down and begin opening up to you more.

2.  Tease her

A great way to flirt with a woman is to tease her.  As you’re talking to her look for an opportunity to make fun of something she is doing.  Don’t be mean or cruel, you’re just looking to ‘bust her balls’ about something silly she has done or said.

3.  Use physical teases

After you’ve used verbal teasing to let her know you’re flirting with her, you can then begin to physically tease her.  Physical teases include making an exaggerated expression as she is telling a story, sticking your tongue out at her, or pulling your hand away when she goes to give you high five.

If these sound childish.. they are meant to.  The best examples of flirting are the sort of things you used to do back on the playground in the fourth grade.

4.  Keep her guessing

Women love the suspense of not knowing exactly how you feel about them.  Once you come right out and tell a girl you like her, the sexual tension that was building between the two of  you begins to die down.  This is why it is always better to never quite let her know where she stands with you.  This idea of push/pull is a powerful technique when flirting with a woman.

5.  Escalate the flirtation

Once you’ve established yourself as a fun, flirty type of guy, you must begin taking the conversation to a more sexual level.  This is because you don’t want to come across as the “funny friend” or “the flirt”… instead, you want her to begin seeing you as a guy she would like to get intimate with.  The best way to do this is become more physical.  This means you do things like hold her hand, hold eye contact longer, and get closer to her.

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