Men are initially attracted to physical beauty. Who is not? Even women go crazy for handsome guys. But after satisfying your eyes, then what’s next? Men who are looking for long-term relationships look for more than physical beauty. You will be surprised to know that what most men are looking for in a woman has nothing to do with looks, boobs or body measurements. If a man seriously want to commit and want a lasting relationship, he wants a woman of quality. Become a quality woman and you will find a quality man.
To be able to become a quality woman, you must know the traits that a woman of quality must possess. So what are those qualities?
To become a quality woman you must know how to listen. Men do not want to be nagged when they have problems or when something is bothering them but they want someone who will just listen to them and that means a woman who really knows how to listen. It takes time for men to be able to verbalize what’s troubling them, what’s on their minds or what they feel. They need time to process everything before they can decide to talk about it. While he’s processing everything, he will appreciate it more if you will let him know that you are there and ready to listen when he’s ready to talk about it. Men like women who are supportive and know how to really listen.
To become a quality woman you have to be happy and fulfilled. It is important that you are accomplished and fulfilled as a person. You enjoy your job and the things that you do. It can be a great burden for men if you will look for that happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. It is true that relationships do give us happiness and fulfillment but on your own you have to be someone who is fulfilled and happy about who you are.
To become a quality woman you have to be a good cook. There is a saying that “the only way to get to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, although we know that it’s not the only way, we do know that it’s one of the ways to win a man’s heart. If a woman can feed her man with a good meal, it is an indication how nurturing she is and it is a sign that she will be a good wife and mother. The effort to learn how to be a good cook and the effort to cook for him can definitely make his heart flutter in appreciation of your thoughtfulness.
To become a quality woman you must know how to laugh. A woman with a good sense of humor is definitely attractive and men want to be around them. Life is already full of stress and worries so why would he choose to be with someone who is too serious, uptight and do not know how to share a good laugh? Stop being a worry freak and lighten up. Learn to laugh and throw some good jokes.
To become a quality woman you have to be comfortable with yourself including your flaws. With the advancement of science, everything can be changed now. Most men prefer more real women who are comfortable with their own skin and their flaws. Most men find women who are not bothered having small cup size or a not so perfect nose admirable. Most men still want to bring home to their moms that simple girl next door, the kind of girl who loves to smile and her great personality outshines her flaws. This kind of woman focus more on the things she have and the things she can do best than the things she cannot do or don’t have,
To become a quality woman you must be caring and loving. Saying “I Love You” is a good thing but words without actions will not work. Men want women who do not only gospel about love but who actually show how to be caring and loving. A woman who go out of her way to care for someone is really admirable. Being kind and caring to the people around you is an indication how loving and caring you are and these are the qualities most men are looking for.
To become a quality woman you have to know how to compromise. Men admire women who are willing to find the middle ground to find a solution acceptable to both sides. Men find this quality more important than any physical beauty. Women who are willing to compromise are more attractive and men can see themselves having a happier and lasting relationship with women of this quality.
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