It happens to the best of us. Communication is such a fickle thing, and the lines of communication can become blurred every so often, especially when feelings are involved. Even those who think that they are immune to the confusion of conflict can find themselves drawn into a communication breakdown when they least expect it, and chaos ensues.
But when it comes to opinions that count, you can’t afford NOT to be choosy. Following what everyone else does will get you the same results as everyone else. And going by the divorce rate and the number of singles still searching for love, what everyone else is doing is not working too well.
I’ve always been curious about this aspect of dating, because very few women have comparable experiences. With some dates, the knowledge is immediate and instinctual. With other dates, months may pass before the endearing nature of his laugh, his smile, his character becomes apparent.