Dealing with a break up is not easy especially for women. Whether you are the one dumped or you are the one who ended the relationship, one thing is for sure, breaking up is painful. But the good news about break ups is that it is possible to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend after a break up.
Rekindling a broken romance is not easy but it is not impossible. The following tips can be very helpful if you want to get your ex back.
Collect yourself and get back on your feet. Breaking up could damage your self-esteem and could push you to isolate yourself and suffer from emotional pain. If you want to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend, you have to come to your senses first, get back on your feet and do not let your emotions rule over you. Go out and meet friends or meet new people. Focus on yourself first and rebuild your broken self-esteem before trying to rekindle your broken relationship. Reconciling with an ex is not that hard if you are already in control of your emotions.
Look back and identify the reasons why the relationship ended. You cannot repair a broken relationship unless you know what causes it to get broken in the first place. This is not the time to blame your ex but this is the time to reflect and look at how you behaved in your relationship. What have you done wrong? It may help to list down common complaints or concerns of your ex-boyfriend about you. Making a list will help you see what went wrong and it can help you think what you need to do to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend.
Analyze the issues in your relationship. You already listed the issues in your relationship, if you really want to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend, now is the time to go through the issues one by one to know what you can do about those issues. For instance, if too much jealousy was a constant source of arguments in your relationship, think of ways on how to manage your emotions and how you won’t be consumed by too much jealousy again. Jealousy can be beneficial in a relationship but if it’s too much it can ruin a relationship. If being clingy is your problem, you may need to widen your network of friends and do not limit yourself only in the company of your boyfriend. Men can feel suffocated and may push you away if you always check on them.
Communicate with your ex-boyfriend about reconciliation. Of course before doing this you have to make sure that you both have cooled down and emotionally stable. It is also important that you both have to be committed to work on the issues on your relationship. Face the problems that led to your break up and work on the solutions to create a better and happier relationship.
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